Tuesday, December 21, 2010

The Secret — Choose a Goal and Stay on Path

Not too long ago, I saw a movie that altered the course of my life– it was called The Secret. I then read the book, which essentially sets forth that you must visualize where you are going in order to get there.

A famous book quoted in The Secret is Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, which I proceeded to read, and which also sets forth the importance of visualizing your goals. Anthony Robbins and many other motivational gurus often talk about these same topics and inspirational ideas.

There is a lot to be said about clearly visualizing where you are going. You have to know where you want your life to go, and then set a path to get there.

But before you choose that path, you need to know where you are going. What’s your final destination? What you are striving for each day determines where you are going to end up. Whatever you plan to achieve, you will eventually achieve. Do you have no plans…? Are you planning for nothing at all right now…? If so, you’ll probably end up with a lot of nothing…

Looking back through my career, and looking at the current people I’m surrounded by, I can clearly see that what makes the successful people so successful, ultimately, is their burning desire to achieve their dreams.

In order to succeed, you need to visualize where you are going and you must stay on path. The further you visualize your business going, the more success you are likely to have.

There are several things I’ve noticed which really do seem to work when you visualize yourself succeeding.

The first is surrounding yourself with people who are likely to assist you in reaching your goals. It is not easy to rise up when those around you are not also rising. I have seen this happen countless times. If you are truly trying to better yourself, your business and your life, you need to ensure that you do not let others hold you back. This is crucial. You need to have the power to really become the person you want to be, and this needs to come from inside, without any external distractions.

You must try to avoid feeling down or becoming negative, even in the face of adversity or missed opportunities. Hold on to your dreams and stay positive. When it comes to your business, do everything in your power to ensure that you do not give up on your dreams. Continue to focus on what you want to become until you become it.

Do you know where you want to go?

Thanks Christine Ross for posting. Another great team member on Internet Ceo Moms

Merry Christmas!

Lori
www.momsforgreen.com

Friday, December 17, 2010

Great Advice for anyone interested in a Home Business

If you’ve been wondering how to take an ordinary idea and turn it into an extraordinary business, read on. These 9 clues to success are guaranteed to give you the edge when it comes to making your Big Ideas, Dreams and Goals a reality:

1. Decide – The women were very clear about their decision to become an entrepreneur. There was no turning back. They were focused on making their business dreams and goals happen. Period.

2. Live in Optimism – Each one of them spoke about the power of optimism and this one style of behavior helped them in times of challenge and struggle in their business (especially early on in the start-up phase).

3. Maintain Unshakeable Belief – I had a mentor once who used to say, “people are looking for the chink in your armor.” It’s not what you say about your business that will attract people; it’s how you feel about what you say. These women had unshakeable belief about their business goals from the very start.

4. Take Inspired Action – There is a difference between action and inspired action. Do you get up every day with energy and passion for your business or do you hit the snooze button most days? Do you feel inspired when you get into your office or does it feel like a “ball and chain?” These women love what they do and it shows.

5. Follow your “gut” – Whether you are in the start-up phase or ready to take your business to the next level of success, trust your instincts.

6. ASK – This was BIG. These women were not afraid to share their ideas with anyone. They developed a marketing message about their mission and shared it everywhere they went with anyone who would listen. Challenge yourself to ask more often for what you want in business and life.

7. Get Uncomfortable – It’s essential that you get comfortable with being uncomfortable. When we’re comfortable, that’s a big clue that we’re not growing. The only way to experience real personal and business growth is to challenge yourself on a regular basis.

8. COI – Sit down and make a list of your “centers of influence.” These people are admired and respected in your community and area of business. Make a commitment to contact them and share your Big Ideas, Dreams and Goals. I will share from my own personal experience that this one tip has taken my business from “surviving” to “thriving.”

9. Pay Attention – To your clients and customers. Once you begin to gain momentum in your business, pay attention to what your clients and customers have to say. They will tell you what they want and how they want it delivered. Survey your clients at least once a year to find out what they love about your business and how you can better serve them.

These 9 success clues were basic threads that ran through each speaker’s presentation. Here’s what I love about them; They are low-cost to no-cost and as expected, come from within you. All you need to do is decide. Make a decision about achieving your own level of success (whatever that means to you) and follow these easy-to-implement clues to take your Big Idea, Dreams and Goals from “surviving” to “thriving.”

Anything is possible. Everything is waiting for you.

© 2010 Joy Chudacoff

Joy Chudacoff, ICF, PCC, is the founder of Smart Women Smart Solutions®, a Professional Certified Coach to 1000’s of women, Motivational Speaker, and Entrepreneur. She publishes a weekly buzz generating ezine, Reflections On Life and Business for Women Entrepreneurs. If you’re ready take your life and your business to the next level, get your FREE Tips, 2 FREE Reports and FREE MP3 now at http://www.CreatingTheSpark.com

I hope this has helped you.

To your success!

Lori
www.momsforgreen.com

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

The story behind Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer

This is a great story! Very inspirational! We can all learn from this story!

The True Story of Rudolph

A man named Bob May, depressed and brokenhearted, stared out his drafty apartment window into the chilling December night.

His 4-year-old daughter Barbara sat on his lap quietly sobbing. Bob's wife, Evelyn, was dying of cancer Little Barbara couldn't understand why her mommy could never come home. Barbara looked up into her dad's eyes and asked, "Why isn't Mommy just like everybody else's Mommy?" Bob's jaw tightened and his eyes welled with tears. Her question brought waves of grief, but also of anger. It had been the story of Bob's life. Life always had to be different for Bob.

Small when he was a kid, Bob was often bullied by other boys. He was too little at the time to compete in sports. He was often called names he'd rather not remember. From childhood, Bob was different and never seemed to fit in. Bob did complete college, married his loving wife and was grateful to get his job as a copywriter at Montgomery Ward during the Great Depression. Then he was blessed with his little girl. But it was all short-lived. Evelyn's bout with cancer stripped them of all their savings and now Bob and his daughter were forced to live in a two-room apartment in the Chicago slums. Evelyn died just days before Christmas in 1938.

Bob struggled to give hope to his child, for whom he couldn't even afford to buy a Christmas gift. But if he couldn't buy a gift, he was determined to make one - a storybook! Bob had created an animal character in his own mind and told the animal's story to little Barbara to give her comfort and hope. Again and again Bob told the story, embellishing it more with each telling. Who was the character? What was the story all about? The story Bob May created was his own autobiography in fable form. The character he created was a misfit outcast like he was. The name of the character? A little reindeer named Rudolph, with a big shiny nose. Bob finished the book just in time to give it to his little girl on Christmas Day. But the story doesn't end there.

The general manager of Montgomery Ward caught wind of the little storybook and offered Bob May a nominal fee to purchase the rights to print the book. Wards went on to print,_ Rudolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer_ and distribute it to children visiting Santa Claus in their stores. By 1946 Wards had printed and distributed more than six million copies of Rudolph. That same year, a major publisher wanted to purchase the rights from Wards to print an updated version of the book.

In an unprecedented gesture of kindness, the CEO of Wards returned all rights back to Bob May. The book became a best seller. Many toy and marketing deals followed and Bob May, now remarried with a growing family, became wealthy from the story he created to comfort his grieving daughter. But the story doesn't end there either.

Bob's brother-in-law, Johnny Marks, made a song adaptation to Rudolph. Though the song was turned down by such popular vocalists as Bing Crosby and Dinah Shore , it was recorded by the singing cowboy, Gene Autry. "Rudolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer" was released in 1949 and became a phenomenal success, selling more records than any other Christmas song, with the exception of "White Christmas."

The gift of love that Bob May created for his daughter so long ago kept on returning back to bless him again and again. And Bob May learned the lesson, just like his dear friend Rudolph, that being different isn't so bad. In fact, being different can be a blessing.




I hope you have enjoyed this and has brighten your day in some way!


Merry Christmas 2010!

Lori
www.momsforgreen.com

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Internet Ceo Moms Conference Call - 12/13/10

One of our leaders Amber shared with us information about the book Leader Without a Title by Robin Sharma

The more you own the power to make choices the more important your choices become.

Robin Sharma talked about the word IMAGE and what it stands for in leaderhip.

I – Innovation

You have to make this day better than yesterday! Important to be a visionary and avoid being average before it creeps up on you so, do not get comfortable. Do small moves every day and it will make a difference over time. Do not regret! Be grateful for what you do have and it helps you move forward. The more hungry you become, the successful you become.

What if you had a team member call to say it is really hard this month? It does not have to be hard and it does not need to be mediocre this month. Break it down and mentor them on all of the positive things you can do to grow your business.

Your past does not determine your future! Hyrum Smith

M- Mastery

Who is the best in your business? Did you write your own name down? You have to be the best business builder in your business! When you protect yourself you destroy yourself. The only economy that matters is what is between your ears. You have control in your own household.

A - Authenticity

It is your ability to make an impact by the authority you receive than your status. You must be trustworthy! Feeling safe in your own skin! Be consistent is reflective of you on the inside.

G – Guts

You have to be unrealistically persistent and wildly courageous. Success is a numbers game and failure is not an option. We are doing something different! We are going to be different. Look at what I want to do with my life and do it!
It has more to do with them than you! Criticism is the defense mechanism that people put on. We all have the power to make a change.

E – Ethics

Be consistent with your values. Say what you mean and do what you say. Surround yourself with the people you want to be like. Use your inner leader skills that inhabits you to not only to lift your life but to elevate the lives of others. That is what it is all about, helping others!

Whenever you think something is impossible, it really means that you have not explored all of the possibilities.


Check out more information on Robinsharma.com!

Thanks Internet Ceo Moms for another incredible training call!


To your succees!

Lori
www.momsforgreen.com

Monday, December 13, 2010

What are you putting on your body?

This was posted by my business partner Kathy Fisher! Thanks, Kathy great article!


David Suzuki talks about the chemicals present in our personal care products. If you want to find out how you can eliminate these from your home simply by switching stores to better, safer products, and save money!

What are you putting on your body?
April 16, 2010
Do you know what's in your cosmetics? (Credit: Shawn Campbell via Flickr)

By David Suzuki with Faisal Moola

Every day, we slather ourselves with liquids, lotions, and potions-from shampoo and soap to deodorant and makeup. After all, most of us want to look and feel clean and to smell nice. It's not uncommon for a single person to use 10 or more personal-care products daily.

We don't usually think of our cosmetics as a source of pollution. But U.S. researchers found that one eighth of the 82,000 ingredients used in personal-care products are industrial chemicals, including carcinogens, pesticides, reproductive toxins, plasticizers, and degreasers.

Take a look at the ingredient list on your bottle of shampoo or hand lotion. Most of us would have a hard time identifying which chemicals in the typically long list of ingredients may be harmful to human health or the environment.

Chances are your personal-care products contain 'fragrance' or 'parfum'-often the last item on the ingredient list. Fragrance recipes are considered trade secrets so manufacturers don't have to disclose the chemicals they include. More than 3,000 chemicals are used to create 'fragrances', usually in complex mixtures. Up to 80 per cent of these have never been tested to see whether they are toxic to humans.

These fragrances are not just found in perfumes and deodorants but are also in almost every type of personal-care product, as well as laundry detergents and cleaning products. Even products labelled 'fragrance-free' or 'unscented' can contain fragrance, usually with a masking agent to prevent the brain from perceiving odour.

The negative effects of some fragrance ingredients can be immediately apparent, especially for the growing number of people with chemical sensitivities. For example, fragrance chemicals can trigger allergic reactions, asthma attacks, and migraines. Researchers have even found evidence suggesting that exposure to some of these chemicals can exacerbate or even contribute to the development of asthma in children.

Other chemicals may have harmful effects that don't show up right away. For example, diethyl phthalate (DEP) is a cheap and versatile chemical widely used in cosmetic fragrances to make the scent last longer. But it is associated with a range of problems. The European Commission on Endocrine Disruption has listed it as a Category 1 priority substance, based on evidence that it interferes with hormone function. Phthalates have been linked to early puberty in girls, reduced sperm count in men, and reproductive defects in the developing male fetus (when the mother is exposed during pregnancy).

Some research has also suggested that phthalate metabolites may contribute to obesity and insulin resistance in men. Health Canada has moved to ban six phthalates in children's toys, after evidence showed that prolonged exposure can cause liver or kidney failure, but it has no plans to regulate the chemicals in cosmetics. DEP is also listed as a Priority and Toxic Pollutant under the U.S. Clean Water Act, based on evidence that it can be toxic to wildlife and the environment.

Fragrance chemicals often harm the environment. Some compounds in synthetic "musk", which wash off our bodies and find their way into nature, remain in the environment for a long time and can build up in the fatty tissues of aquatic animals. Researchers have found measureable levels of synthetic musks in fish in the Great Lakes (pdf), and they've found that levels in sediment are increasing.

In response to the sensitivity many people have to airborne chemicals, a growing number of offices and public spaces are becoming "fragrance-free". This is a great initiative, but what are these and other harmful chemicals doing in our cosmetics in the first place?

Canada's regulations don't measure up to standards in other parts of the world. The European Union restricts many fragrance ingredients and requires warning labels on products if they contain any of 26 allergens commonly used as cosmetic fragrances. Europe also prohibits or restricts the use of chemicals classified as carcinogens, mutagens, or reproductive toxins in personal-care products.

The David Suzuki Foundation and other organizations are working for safer products. We're conducting a survey to raise awareness and to find out what's in the products people use every day. We plan to present the results in September, along with recommendations for strengthening laws to protect Canadians and our environment from harmful chemicals in personal-care products.

You can help out by becoming more aware of what's in the products you use and switching to products that don't contain harmful ingredients.

I hope this information helps you. I think we all need to be more educated on consumer products and the first step is to switch stores to utilize products that do not contain harmful chemicals.

To Your Success!

Lori
www.momsforgreen.com

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Internet Ceo Moms Conference Call on December 6, 2010

Thanks Gina Pilara Neef for sharing on our biz call last night from the book, "The Mentor Leader" by Tony Dungy.

"Blessed be the leader who seeks the best for those he serves."

Engage - teamwork doesn't tolerate the inconvenience of distance.

Educate - good teachers help every student earn an A.

Equip - Our job as leaders is to show you what to do and how to do it. Your job is to do it consistently."

Empower – Leaders will be those who inspire others!

Energize - Create energy for your team, be a role model!

Elevate – Teamwork – Less me and more we!


Great information on our conference call. I feel so lucky to be part of a team that shares valuable information and insight every Monday evening. Thanks Internet Ceo Moms!

To your success!

Lori

Monday, December 6, 2010

A prayer that might help

Almighty God,
help me to remember that
You alone are perfect.

You alone possess infinite patience.

When I expect perfection from
myself, teach me humility.
When I seek perfection in others,
give me patience.

Help me to treat others as I would
have them treat me, knowing
that we are all imperfect mortals.
Rid my mind of pride and power
this day and always.
In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

Submitted By: Jack Henry


I hope this helps you everyday!

Lori

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Our Quest for Happiness by Frank Vandersloot

I believe that a factor that is often overlooked in our search for happiness is the tremendous impact that our own moral compass has on our happiness. We all seem to have a moral compass--something inside of us that tells us what is morally "right" and what is morally "wrong". It's something that is inside each of us. When we live and act within the boundaries of our moral compass, we have peace of mind. When we find ourselves living or acting outside the boundaries of our moral compass, we don't like ourselves. And when we don't like ourselves we can never be happy. I suspect that this phenomenon has the greatest impact on our happiness. Liking who we are is, I believe, the most important aspect of finding happiness. I have often imagined a man standing in front of a mirror when he is 90 years old and saying to the person in the mirror, "I know you. I know everything about you. I know everything you've ever done. I know every thought you've ever had. I know every mistake you've ever made. And I know what you have done to try to correct those things. And therefore I like you. And I trust you!" I think that would be the ultimate test of our lives. If we can pass that test, we will have passed the test of life. We will like ourselves. And we will have lived a happy life.

I hope this helps you in some way!

To your success!

Lori